Not everything that happens in our life is gratifying. There are always moments that are unpredictable & unexpectable. I often grudge against things that doesn't work in my way. That's not good I know. And I guess I learnt from everytime's incident. Learning from mistake is always the best way to improve. But when things happen over & over again, before one can fully recover, that might be harder to be accepted and it'll take up a longer recovery period. When someone is under recovery , and there comes another impact, even though already under recovery but it'll definitely weaken one's condition even more than the previous one.
I found fast way for recovery : To love is to forgive :) .. Takes time, but definitely it'll work out more than bringing out world war 3 where both side will have to overcome severe injury. Speak out what heart feels rather than keeping them untold. When it collects ,& until there's no more space to fit in anymore discontentment, & it will only be fatal for both & no other way else. See things in the other half's side, and try to understand. When arguments started, automatically it'll be very habitual & it'll be a routine in one's relationship. I don't know bout others. I have my opinion. Whether other accepts it or not, non of my business. Or it should be , non of their business even if they don't agree with me. haha!
p/s: Though to love is to forgive, but there are certain limits where one can stand..not everything can be forgiven. There are always solutions for sudden happenings, the word BUT will only worsen the situation.
Act smart. Think smart.
love u as always ♥
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