Day 365 ♥

What have you done a year ago today? Might be ordinary for some of you but not me with no ifs ands or buts ♥
Last year's today, 23rd October is the day. How would I not believe that I've spent my last 365 days with this awesome fella. The guy who made me smile, made me laugh, made me cry and made me mad. Love with no doubts is where I lay my love on you-laukitmun. ♥

A long distance relationship was never an ideal relationship once, but not now. The hard work pay off with a loving & devoted relationship. Hard times gone through right at the beginning of relationship, separated apart with misunderstanding. I'm glad that he's a guy who kept promises. A promise that I thought would be nothing but eventually turned out to be something I cherish. Phone calls each day with promised web-cam session every day without fail, lasted for a year. A year, not a prolonged period of time but more than enough to jot down all the memorable moments we had.

Time counts, personalities shown as time passes. With a person to endure and accept all the personalities you have ain't something easy. The acceptance of a whole is not what everyone could do. The relationship did not turn weak but in fact it turned stronger from time to time. At times I'm glad that we're doing good. ♥ Understanding is the key that brought us here today. Hide no secrets, speak straight forward. You're always doing better than what I expect you to be. ♥ you

*Tik tok tik tok* Time reveals the truth. It counts on our relationship & still counting ♥ ♥
Happy Anniversary ♥

365 days ; 31,536,000 seconds ; 525,600 minutes ; 8760 hours ; 52 weeks . the watches count on our footsteps ♥

異地戀 =)

Got this story from HERE

有許多人不同意，畢竟分隔兩地，不能照顧依偎著對方，心裡的失落總是有的罷。

但是很多異地戀的人確實是幸福的，比任何人都幸福。

兩個人能整天膩在一起，固然很幸福，他們很少會寂寞，但是也很少有綿長的思念。思念本身就是一種最大的幸福，記得自來也大人曾經對名人說，思念你的人就是你的歸處。

擁有異地戀的人是幸運的，因為你擁有了一個願意和你一起堅持努力的人，你擁有了一顆能和你有著相同執著和夢想的心，你擁有了一份強烈到有勇氣挑戰可惡的距離的愛，這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

每當一個人靜靜的時候，想到有一個人和你一樣在堅守這如此脆弱的愛情，那種溫暖，不是異地戀的人是無法體會的，那是一種心靈無聲的溝通，是無條件的信賴。茫茫人海中，能找到這樣一個無條件信賴自己的人，這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

兩個人常常在一起，難免會大意，他們常常會一起吃飯，一起逛街，一起上課，但是卻常常忽略了心靈上的溝通。對於一份真正的愛情，溝通才是最重要的，它能保 持愛情的新鮮感，能讓對方了解現在愛著的是怎樣的一個人。只有了解了對方，愛情裡才不會有誤解， 才不會有錯失了的愛情。所以，異地戀的人有了愛情的優勢，他們很久都見不了面，有了心事，有了難過就在電話裡傾訴，他們的每一次交談都相當於一次交心，因 為彼此都能了解對方的想念，所以，在他們之間很少有了誤會，彼此都懂得了諒解，懂得了寬容。這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

甜言蜜語也算的愛情的潤滑劑吧，沒有一對戀人可以有像異地戀人那樣擁有繁多的機會說甜言蜜語，每次電話裡，總是無意中會說一些“想你”“等你”“愛你”， 即使話不多的人也一樣會說，因為彼此愛著，因為目前只有“語言”這樣一種工具可以表達自己的心情，因為愛的表達，其實都單一。所以，能堅持異地戀的人都是 深切的愛著的，這樣的愛在時間的河流里平淡卻激烈，我想這是所有人都會羨慕的愛。擁有著這樣的愛的你，難道不幸福嗎？

在愛情裡我最不怕的就是距離，只要真正愛著，終歸是能在一起。是啊，距離在那麼深切的愛里算什麼？什麼也不是。如果你們因為異地戀就輕易分手了，千萬不要 把罪過怪在距離上，你應該慶幸，自己離開了的一個並不真正愛你的人，因為在愛的面前，距離真的什麼也不是。所以,如果你的愛人也在遙遠的地方，不要覺得寂 寞，不要覺得委屈，要慶幸，你用寂寞和思念換來了一份真正的愛，那是別人求之不得的愛。

what's your role?

Leaving in a world of two, there's where each couple indulge themselves in. Whatever that happens within the couple, let them solve, sometimes a thought of concerning might lead to unnecessary misunderstanding. It's often better to know, what's the role we're playing. Concerning is caring, indeed. But despite all this, ever thought of the consequences before actions were taken, words spoken?

People fall in love. with one at a time.. Don't doubt whether you're still in love with the person or not, or else, it's better to be informed that the feeling is no longer the same as previous. One's said : When it's not broken, why fix it. Problems occur in every relationship, but to solve or not to solve, your wish. Never take people's concern as the action-to-be. People are selfish. Picture yourself that if one day, your partner is approached by some one else, without your concern, how would you feel when you find out. No one else knows better than you do, you know what's on your mind. You might lie to the world, but not yourself. Think trice & wise.. Don't do what's out of your range. Play your part, practice your role. Sometimes concerns were much appreciated, but just don't do what you're not suppose to. Leave it back to the couple to solve.

To get a good relationship isn't something that can be achieved in a short term, it's a long row to hoe.

with love, no doubts

Arguments and disagreements are inevitable. You'll realize how witless it is when the argument is over. Nothing to look for in a partner but an understanding and obedient one. :) ♥
Was in the library for the past 2 days.. Numerous time I yawned, with Geof Bailey's book. Last hit alright. If don't work hard, there will be NO second chance ! Wesley & Sangeetha, I wish I can install both of you as an application into my ipod so that whenever I have a question about law I can search from the pod. =/

Was asked to pick up my sister from her school at 6.45pm. Hell I miss the old times. I wonder how we actually did walked to the library from our school? even to the MCD in town. we're all nuts. I believe we always did unavailing but blissful things when we're still in high school. Happy moments are always memorable . Now? Anymore inducements? Btw, i spotted something that only will happen in Ipoh I guess :D


spotted? the uncle parked his car in the middle of the road, & went down to pick his daughter. =.=
Btw, today's post gonna be short. Shall update again soon :)

Smelly Toufu, Anymore?

Step 1 : Stir and mix the feaces together
Step 2: Filter them so that the "water" can be obtained
Step 3: Soak the toufu into the "ingredient" water.
Step 4: Worms will start growing on those toufu. To solve, use some sort of pesticide or farm chemical to kill them by spraying on those "toufu in process"

The well-know smelly toufu will then be produced ! Ta-Da!

If you want the smell to stink even more, wrap the toufu with cloth, and soak it again into the feaces directly.

WOW ! ANYMORE NOW?

Highway Tragedy 101010

Seeing the 101010 tragedy , awful yet saddening. Involving 6 vehicles with 12 dead. The passengers claimed that the bus was going too fast while on the other hand the ministry of transport said the the bus was in good condition. Owh? that's the explanation ey?

Don't they see the inefficiency they have in their system? What's with all the buses speeding on the highway, over taking cars and exceeding their 90km/hr limits everyday? Does express bus means that it mus be so "express" that there will be ignorance towards the rules? Then what's the point having the 80km/hr and 90km/hr stick behind their bus butt? If you doesn't know how fast they speed, in fact you should try driving on the highway, and see how the bus would flash light to ask you "move aside" so that they can pass through the middle or the right lane . They just never stick to the left lane, NEVER.

What's with all the summonses? usefull enough? or is the "extra pocket money" that made it useless? What's with the rising amount of accidents involving buses, don't they notice it? Or it should be said, when things are on the heat, much things will be carried out to solve, but when it cooled down, it'll be kept in the fridge, frozen. Seeing dead bodies lying on the ground, dreadful enough. The pain hits my heart.

Will you still get yourself on traveling buses ?


More pictures here

How much would have people treasure each moment until things like this happens to their own family or friends? May God bless their soul.

moments that make you smile.

A : B, wake up ! 8am already. I overslept, missed my class .

B : Owh, woke already. Then you continue to sleep lar kay?

A : Don't want.. must wake up already *falls back to sleep*

B : oik, wake up wake up, don't sleep !

A : hmmmm.mmm.mmmmmm

B : wake up ar!

A : You don't wake up first ar , you dizzy later

B : I ask you to wake up, not me !

A : Still wanna wake up ? Told you don't wake first !

B : I ASK YOU TO WAKE. NOT ME !

A : hmmmmm.mmmm.mmmm

B : You know who are you talking to?

A : Chee Cheong Fun

B : ISH. what chee cheong fun. I ask you whether you know who am I or not.

A : okay lar you go out tapao chee cheong fun first lar.

B : ISH !

A : Eat more ar okay?

B : I hang up ge lar, i need to get myself prepared already

A : Okay lar you go eat lar, eat more okay..

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half an hour later : 8.30am

..

..

A : *woke up*

B : you faster wake up ar ! I wake already.

A : I wake already lor, you see you so pig, I spent half an hour to wake u up, now only you are
awake.

B : =.= fine.


Who's the one being pig now ? :D

♥

Missed the damn junction and went all the way to seremban, AGAIN.

Yet it's not the end.

When was the last time you calmed yourself down, and looked out the window and experience how wonderful the world is? How lucky we are to have our current life. When downturn hits you, it's not the end of the world. Count the stars in the sky, they are uncountable, unreachable. Unlike problems that we encounter, whether it's countable or uncountable, reachable to a solution or to give up, it's all in the control of our own hands. Destiny, do you control your own? or the destiny controls you?

Going through numerous problems, countered by problems but with solutions that I refused to use. At that very moment, they do pose a threat to me & when I'm about to give up, I'm often reminded on how much I've been through & all the effort put will be dumped away if I stop. Been very disoblige recently, especially to the boyfriend. I'm sorry for all the harsh word I spoke to you at times, expressing all my temper and frustration towards you. Was expecting to have a war with you since I thought no one would have endured such situation but you did. Despite the fact that my frustration overwhelmed me, you still bring out bread and circuses to cheer me out each time.



Life is never easy. Deal with it, learn from it.


Lil note for the boyf :
♥ you .

Not yet a time for me to rest though it's a goodbye to trials. Test hits on Monday with assignment due followed on Tuesday. What to do. Get myself in the game and do the best for the last strike. Public Exam, I'll survive.

you are just the same.

People you meet, things you get & pets you once you have. How much you actually remember all of them? What exactly came across you when you try to find out who's always been the one supporting you? Someone eventually came across your mind, consider him/her as your best friend, but even the best of friends must part. There's no such things like f-o-r-e-v-e-r. Keeping in touch is the best solution of all to maintain the friendship we have. It's just that we do, or we don't. But how many of you, treated a friend at such, without a word of complain? Cross your heart, think! Even I do. I'm glad that I don't have any fair-weathered friends at least. Perhaps in future? No idea. Keeping in touch as such, certainly not just by words, but the heart that matters.

You always realize the true ones when it comes to reality. Who came across your mind when they only find you knowing that you'll have benefits to them? We never measure how deep a friendship or a relationship is. Time reveals. Don't start blaming the world as if you deserves what you get and the world owes you. Compare ourselves to those who live in poverty, most likely we wouldn't even survive for a day. I'm learning to be grateful. To feel blessed with things I have now. You don't work hard, you get nothing. Don't regret when only things were gone. Well, we never miss the water until the well runs dry. I'm glad that I have a bunch of friends to share, a family to love & a boyfriend to be loved. Not everything is about money. Yes, money can be everything, but by the same token, also can kill you. We use them, not the other way round. When things in your life can all be bought with money, that's the time when you lose your dignity.

A friend in need in a friend indeed. but choose friends that will not be an albatross around the neck. No one is perfect, neither do I. It's always tolerance that kept things moving on. You & I, we're just the same. You should be happy that you're now sitting here reading my blog post, yet alive with a wonderful life.


Too much things learned from SAM, indeed.